Understanding Self-Harm

Self harm can happen when someone is overwhelmed by emotional pain and feels there is no other way to cope. It does not always mean the person wants to end their life. Many people use it as an attempt to release pressure or express what they cannot put into words. Even though it may bring temporary relief, it does not solve the underlying problem and often leads to more hurt. Reaching out for support can make a real difference.

Overview

Self harm is any action someone takes to cause pain to themselves on purpose. It can appear in many forms and can affect anyone regardless of age, background or personality.

Signs & Symptoms

 

  •  Unexplained cuts, bruises or frequent injuries

  •  Covering the body even in warm weather

  • Avoiding questions about marks or injuries

  • Keeping sharp objects close or hidden

  • Pulling away from friends or family

  •  Sudden mood changes or emotional numbness

  •  Talking about feeling hopeless or unable to cope

If these symptoms persist for weeks and interfere with your life, it might be time to reach out for help.

When to Seek Professional Help

Reach out to a mental health professional if:

  • Having thoughts of harming yourself

  • Any act of self‑harm

  • Feeling overwhelmed or hopeless

  • Urges you can’t control

  • Using self‑harm to cope

  • Hiding feelings or isolating

  • Fear you might go too far

  • Feeling unsafe or in immediate danger

Getting support early can prevent self-harm from taking over.


You deserve peace of mind, and help is available right now.

Resources & Support

Helplines and Professional Resources

Call 999 or Samaritans Ireland:116123 (24/7, free)

50808 Text Line: Text HELLO to 50808 (free, 24/7)

Text MyAnchorPoint Office 0870387467

HSE YourMentalHealth.ie: Information and professional supports